Paul Staehle fears for his life after his secret Brazilian girlfriend became his stalker

Recently, a Brazilian woman named Fabiola has been stirring up drama across major 90 Day Fiancé subreddits by claiming to be Paul Staehle’s secret girlfriend.

She’s been posting selfies with Paul, WhatsApp screenshots of long conversations, and even sharing proof that they’ve met in person — all in an apparent effort to validate her romantic claims. But while the receipts look convincing on the surface, many fans are feeling that something about her story just doesn’t add up.

Despite their contact, nothing in the evidence truly suggests that they were ever in a serious relationship. There’s no clear indication of affection from Paul’s side — no couple-like exchanges, no romantic gestures, just casual conversation and a few friendly photos. It’s giving more “fan encounter” than “secret lover,” and the vibe online has been that Fabiola may simply be a superfan who crossed personal boundaries. Whether it was a brief moment of friendliness or something else, her persistence afterward has raised concern.

Some speculate that Fabiola’s obsession with Paul may stem from genuine admiration — or a desire to become the next breakout star of the franchise. By aligning herself with one of 90 Day Fiancé’s most infamous cast members, she might be hoping to get cast herself, follow in the footsteps of other Brazilian stars, and eventually move to the United States. But the fandom isn’t fully buying it — and her alleged stalking behavior has probably left Paul feeling anxious and uncomfortable, turning this drama into something far more serious than a fan fantasy.