90 Day Fiancé: Loren Brovarnik’s Defensive Attitude On Social Media Isn’t Doing Her Any Favors (Is She Really Desperate For Attention?)
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star Loren Brovarnik is digging for attention with her social media posts. Loren and her husband Alexei Brovarnik, both 36, were married in 2015 after meeting in Israel on a birthright trip. They are the parents of three children: Shai, 4, Asher, 3, and Ariel, 2. Loren and Alexei have made numerous appearances on the franchise since appearing in 90 Day Fiancé season 3, including their spin-off Loren and Alexei: After The 90 Days.
Loren is open about the toll motherhood has taken on her, including weight and body image issues. She decided to undergo a mommy makeover in 2023, which was documented on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After season 8. Loren now has her sights set on becoming a mommy influencer. She’s honest about the challenges she faces raising three young children, which strikes a chord with many parents. However, Loren’s reaction to the criticism she receives indicates that she may be after more than offering support to other struggling parents.
Loren Directs Her Instagram Posts At Mommy Shamers
Loren’s Instagram posts about parenting and her children often receive brutal comments. Nobody deserves to see their children criticized. But rather than taking the high road, Loren chooses to fight back at her critics. In addition to replying to comments, she often takes a proactive stance by addressing Instagram posts directly to mommy shamers.
In November, Loren posted a side-by-side comparison of family photos taken in 2023 and 2024. In the caption, she wrote, “BEFORE you start commenting on our looks, about how tired or bad, or too skinny or sickly or [preferably] how happy we look, WHATEVER it may be – we are parents to 3 very beautiful and very active toddlers. Are we exhausted? YES! Are we happy? YES! Would we have it any other way? NO!” Loren’s post delivers a valid message that families shouldn’t be judged by outward appearances.
However, Loren’s delivery does her more harm than good. By focusing on the criticism she’s receiving, Loren’s empowering haters and spreading their negativity. Loren’s beautiful family picture became an aggressive message. Most of her posts follow a similar pattern of being preemptively defensive, which encourages even more negativity in the comments.
Loren’s Social Media Posts Are Intentionally Cryptic
Loren also has a habit of being intentionally vague on social media to stir up more attention. In October, Loren shared emotional photos of herself and wrote, “you never know what someone is dealing with internally, mentally, emotionally, personally.” Loren’s message is true and very important. But instead of highlighting mental health awareness, her post hints at drama in Loren’s personal life without providing any insight. This left commenters bashing Loren for making everything about her and purposely being cryptic to draw more attention to herself.
She gave no details and never mentioned a hospital visit or health problems in subsequent posts.
Similarly, Loren received criticism for alluding to a medical issue after sharing a selfie from what appeared to be a hospital. She gave no details and never mentioned a hospital visit or health problems in subsequent posts. It’s not fair for Loren to use her follower’s sympathy for her benefit. Her tendency to be intentionally cryptic makes fans accuse her of exaggerating or misleading them.
Loren Seems To Enjoy Attention, Even If It’s Negative
Loren and Alexei saw extremely harsh reactions to their Israeli vacation in June. They posted photos of themselves at the sites of the October 7 massacre, but their demeanor didn’t match the somber setting. Loren and Alexei even posed, smiling at a memorial. Commenters slammed the couple for turning the experience into social media content.
Rather than acknowledging the sensitive emotions surrounding the topic, Loren continued to post about her vacation in Israel. Even knowing the negativity she would be facing, Loren and Alexei were steadfast in their conviction that they were doing nothing wrong. The experience proved Loren would rather receive negative attention than none at all.
Loren Is Baiting Critics To Build Her Brand
Loren’s social media presence is more than entertainment; it’s her livelihood. She uses her accounts to advertise products, which means each follower is also a potential customer. The more followers Loren has, regardless of whether they like her or not, the more opportunities she has to make a sale. She uses parenting as a way to gain traction because it’s something so many people can relate to.
She has an amazing platform through 90 Day Fiancé with the potential to offer support to other struggling women.
Loren’s identity is wrapped up in her role as a wife and a mother, so she should be using her popularity to speak about her experiences with motherhood. Loren should share her experiences with confidence and not let trolls dictate her message. She has an amazing platform through 90 Day Fiancé with the potential to offer support to other struggling women. Unfortunately, Loren’s decision to draw even more attention to negativity hurts not only her but also incentivizes negative comments that can be harmful to other mothers.
