90 Day Fiance: Daniele Threatens To Ruin Yohan’s Life!

I told him today, I was like, “You are a narcissist.” And I also said something else because I’m a witch. He’s basically like, “Oh, so you’re saying that you’re killing off my family?” Like that’s how he took it. I was just like, “No, we’re not killing off your family.”

But you know, every action has an equal reaction. Thank you, guys. I’m glad you like my hair. I don’t think Yan likes it, but I don’t care. It’s [Music] easy.

So, tomorrow I go to Capana and figure out where in the [__] world I want to live because I’ve moved seven times in five years. I can’t move anymore. Is he deflecting his accountability? Absolutely. He’s not accountable for anything.

He’s like, “Yes, I am.” Yeah, he only wants to live with his mother. Like, I don’t want to punch him in the face. Then he puts on his TikTok Feliz Panos Insecto, and I asked his sister, “Is he calling me an insect because it’s a picture of me and him?”

She’s like, “Either he doesn’t even know what the video is, and he just adds the first song—which is what I think he does—or he thinks it’s funny because of Dragon Ball Z.”

Next time you have a moment, reach out to… who? Yeah, it’s lonely to be in a relationship with one. Just a [__] important moment. Yeah, yeah, really hard. Hard.

It’s like I know I should leave. It’s not like the loss of me, but it’s like I want to stay until I hate him so much that I’ll never come back. That’s really what I have to do because I don’t want to be going back and forth, forth and back.

So, I’ve just got a question here real quick before I continue playing this. And there’s also another video that we’re also going to play as well.

Okay, when it comes to Johan, he has been labeled a narcissist. Okay, cool. So, what do you call someone that stays with a narcissist because they feel like they need to wait until the person goes over the limit? Also, what is “over the limit”?

What could he possibly do that’s going to make her finally say, “You know what? I need to move on”? I mean, why even stick around until then? Sometimes in life—actually, no, not even sometimes—if you ask me personally, if you know someone isn’t good for you, leave. Like, effective immediately.

What’s the point of waiting around until something else happens? How does that benefit you? I mean, it’s as if… I hate to use this as an example, but there are some people, sadly, in this world who will do self-harm due to whatever’s going on in their life. This is like the same thing.

It’s just that instead of doing self-harm to yourself physically, you’re doing self-harm to yourself mentally. Because the longer you stay with someone that you know isn’t healthy for you mentally, the more it actually damages you.

And the crazy thing about it is that there are some people in this world who think, “I’m actually strong enough to go through all of this mental drainage.” Some people believe just because they’ve been through X, Y, or Z amount of stuff in their life and it’s made them somewhat mentally strong… or whatever. That’s not true because you’re still adding more damage to yourself.

You’re making yourself—let’s put it this way—just say the longer you stay with someone that isn’t healthy for you, the harder it will be for you to accept someone new in your life when the time comes, if you ever leave this person.

Because it means when the next person comes, your barriers are going to be up so freaking high that person is going to have to literally convince you that they’re not your ex.

But you know what the worst thing is? A new person that comes into your life should not be paying the price because of what someone else did to you in the past. Especially when you know what this person is doing to you, and you’re actively choosing to stay in it.

It’s not even the case where she’s been manipulated. You know, she’s here because she’s been brainwashed. This is crazy because she’s here. She chooses to stay because enough hasn’t happened yet.

I mean, listen, we already know about the cheating. For most people, that’s a deal-breaker. Flat out. You know what I mean?

We know about his lack of effort to actually want to get a job, and her always being the one with the financial resources. For some people, depending on who you’re with, yeah, you can stick around if you know that person’s got a vision to become someone or to do better.

But she knows that he doesn’t have that. I mean, not so long ago, it was a flex for her to post a video saying that Yan actually took her and paid for something. That shouldn’t be a flex for anybody, you know what I’m saying? Like, what the hell? That’s just a… Yeah. But hey, let’s play some more, and we’ll also get to the next clip as well.

Why did I tell him today, “We’ll tolerate a lot of things, but when I say no más, it really means no”? And, “If you keep pushing and keep trying to hurt me and keep doing terrible things, I will destroy your life.”

There are many people whose lives I have destroyed very easily, and they don’t speak to me anymore. I would like for them to warn my husband how bad it actually could be.

Now, I’m a bit confused. So, we went from, “I’m going to wait until he does something significant; then I will leave,” despite the fact he’s already done things that are deal-breakers for many people in this world.

But we went from waiting for that to now, “Well, if he does continue, well then, I may have to actually snap.” So I’m confused. If he finally goes too far, are you going to leave him? Or are you going to snap? Are you going to snap and then leave?

Something just can’t be explained. One of my exes called me “John Wick” because everybody thinks I’m the nicest, sweetest person. Because I really am.

I will tolerate a lot of things, but when I say no más, it really means no. If you keep pushing and keep trying to hurt me and keep doing terrible things, I will destroy your life.

There are many people whose lives I have destroyed. Okay, now we’re coming out with threats. I believe we went from the “John Wick” comment to now, “I will destroy your life. There are many lives that I have destroyed.”

I mean, to be honest with you, there is no pleasure in destroying people’s lives. But it sounds to me as if she may wait until someone goes to a point where she now actually wants to destroy them. So she will leave someone once she’s at a point where she wants to destroy them, and she’ll destroy them while leaving them.

I don’t know how that makes things any better. I don’t know why that’s a good thing because it’s not. Like, I would hate to live inside her brain. Really would.

…and they don’t speak to me anymore. I would like for them to warn my husband how bad it actually could be. One of my exes called me “John Wick.” So, okay, cool. Anyway, sorry. Yeah, I apologize for complaining twice. I don’t know why the first bit just went over.

Anyway, nonetheless, though, now we’re also in a position where—or she’s in a position where—she wants the public to warn Johan that she will ruin his life if he does any more damage to her.

I’m not being funny, but the thing is, a thousand of us could contact him and tell him to be warned about Danielle, but he’s not going to care. Why? Because he’s already gotten away with so many things he’s done towards her anyway, according to herself, right? And she has still stuck around regardless.

So, I don’t know why she thinks that a threat to him is actually going to make him think anything. He’s literally going to see it as an empty threat. He’s literally going to see it as, “Okay, do your worst.”

And also, on top of that, I’m not too sure, but I’m pretty sure where he’s from, men aren’t really afraid of women. You know, like they kind of look down on them a little bit. Either way, let me know your thoughts regarding this random threat to Yan.

This, like, “threat or I will ruin his life, so someone better tell him about me.” Yeah, okay. Well, let me know your thoughts. Let me know your thoughts down below because I can’t make sense out of this. There’s so much wishy-washy reasoning going on.